Okay, so, for the last six weeks I have been working with a life coach. Something I have always wanted to do, but would not allow myself the luxury.
As of late, an opportunity was presented to me and I jumped at it.
It has been an eye opening experience and it is not for the faint of heart. Or the lazy.
Being willing to take responsibility for our lives and our actions is a must in this process.
Being open to suggestion and then applying it is a must (if change is to be made).
It is freeing to know that I am in control of my life, regardless of the past. The past is all an illusion. It’s gone. I can change my mind at any time and start over at any moment in my day, no matter what! How frackin’ great is that?!
Kellie, at Women’s Life Link, has been absolutely wonderful. She has such a kind and gentle voice. I feel no judgment at all when I talk to her. She has helped me in more ways than I thought would be possible. More ways than she probably knows.
I guess this is why they call it a Life Coach. It can be life changing. It has helped me get through some blocks and barriers that I have been struggling with for most of my life. But here’s the catch; you only get out of it, what you put into it.
I have realized that I have to be completely honest with her if she is going to give me the direction that I truly need. If I’m not honest, the only person I am hurting is myself. So, it only benefits me to tell the truth.
This is definitely a 50/50 relationship. I give her information, she gives me direction based on that information. I apply the direction that is given to me and then we talk about it on our next scheduled call. Accountability. Yet another wonderful motivator for me.
My attitude has changed, my perception has changed, therefore, my actions change and then my reality changes. Quite simple, but not easy.
If anyone would like to give her website a look, you can find it here.
Well, that’s all for now.